mmhmm I also get this vibe sometimes? Especially from sources that aren't as "white-Goddess-light" as you describe. Which is a pity, because I can't stand that either. Sometimes it feels like there's no neutral zone.

It's like, I wanna learn the thing, without also getting the vibe of seething judgement rolling off of the words. So I'm just careful who I learn from and of course, take the constructive out of the critical.