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11 July 2018 19:04![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
haptalaonI think fundamentally, my complaint is: I have a lot of books which are "Step By Step Learn About Magic Month By Month". When I'm looking for a group, I'm looking for something I can't get from a book.
So much of what I've found so far is essentially a stranger offering to email me their book one chapter at a time and, if I do all that correctly, I get to meet them and they'll consider it.
I'm clearly not ready to step into someone's circle as an equal member. There has to be a building of trust and understanding. But the process has to be two-way. And as I said, it has to offer something more than I can get on my own with a course study book.
So much of what I've found so far is essentially a stranger offering to email me their book one chapter at a time and, if I do all that correctly, I get to meet them and they'll consider it.
I'm clearly not ready to step into someone's circle as an equal member. There has to be a building of trust and understanding. But the process has to be two-way. And as I said, it has to offer something more than I can get on my own with a course study book.
